Tuesday, December 5, 2006

correspondence 12/5/06

Be gentle with yourself. Our time here is precious, do not waste it on might've beens and should've dones. You've guided me through life's myriad environs with a steady hand, loving heart, understanding and patience. As I approach the time when I will stand on my own I am not afraid. Do you know why? Because I carry with me your lessons - they are written in all my actions and many of my dreams. How many other young women can say the same of their fathers? Take a moment to contemplate how unique your gifts to this world are. You have successfully raised a daughter, given her a future, given her maps to guide her through life and the strength to live it. Though these things are not tangible like donations to a charity or hours spent at a soup kitchen they are perhaps more important. You had the courage and insight to defy a centuries old social structure that denies my worth. You taught me to believe in myself, love myself and pursue my dreams without fear. In a world where women are treated at sub-humans, either covertly or overtly, understand the worth of your contribution.
Don't feel like you haven't done enough, only realize you have the ability to do more.

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